by the grace of a friend, he shared this chinese quote with me. i find the words quite true. (*^-^*)

爱一个人，
To love a person,

要了解，也要开解；
要道歉，也要道谢；
要认错，也要改错；
要体贴，也要体谅；
Is to learn more, but also to comfort;
Is to apologize, but also to thank;
Is to admit one's fault, but also to change;
Is to be considerate, but also to be understanding;

是接受，而不是忍受；
是宽容，而不是纵容；
是支持，而不是支配；
是慰问，而不是质问；
是倾诉，而不是控诉；
是难忘，而不是遗忘；
Is to accept, rather than put up with;
Is to tolerate, rather than condone;
Is to support, rather than dominate;
Is to sympathize, rather than question;
Is to talk to, rather than complain;
Is to remember, rather than forget;

是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；
是为对方默默祈求，而不是向对方诸多要求；
可以浪漫，但不要浪费；
Is to communicate, rather than report;
Is to pray, rather than demand;
Can be romantic, but not wasteful;

可以随时牵手，但不要随便分手。
Can hold one's hand anytime, but not break up easily.