Different ppl w have different point of view yup.
Last time i used to love it.
It seems to signifies a promise.
Endorsed physically on an object.
Everywhere u go. Every moment u look at it.
It reminds u of the promise u made.
to each other. hw u wud hold on tgt forever.
It bridges a bond between the couple ba.
Den some incidents. i began to hate it.
Its like ppl misuse the meaning of it.
couple rings become like an accessories.
It no longer holds the kinda mystical power in it
When the heart is one. The rings hold a v respected significance.
When the heart is broken. The ring becomes an unwanted past.
thrown away. Junk aside. hide away.
mayb dats why. i nv want to accept rings in my past r/s.
when dere's no definite confidence in dat r/s
no future i can look upon to.
i know i wun vow that promise.
i guess..
its only when u met the right person.
someone who really gives u the full sense of..
security. assurance .
even if e future may be bleak n uncertain.
He who makes u believe.
10 years down e road.
50 years down e road.
he will still hold your hands and say
"I Love You"
Thats when the ring w beholds the vow truely.
Have u met that someone?
i ripped this off janet's entry. haha. i guess what started this topic was the couple ring i was wearing when i met her to go to NTU for medical check up last week. well, the first time i received a couple ring from my first boyfriend, after 5 days we broke up. so if you're superstitious kind of person, dont get yourself a couple ring until you wanna marry that guy/gal. after that i lost faith in couple rings too. i just thought it's silly. anyone can just buy the same design of a ring as you. any stranger. is that a couple ring too? the answer is no. couple rings are meant for two hearts that are connected. when two hearts are connected, it would make that ring special.
i guess i met that someone and i let him made this promise to me. you guys know how much i hate promises cause it's always broken? hmm.. but it's different with him. maybe cause as a friend previously, the promises he made were never broken. the words he said were kept true. he asked me a funny question...
what if i bought you another ring, would you still wear this?
if it's on a different finger i would wear both. if it's for the same finger, i will just wear one on each hand. i'm greedy. keke.
although there's always some small arguements here and there, mood swings and my pms period, it is through all this that you will come to have a better understanding of what each other wants and needs. i admit as a girl i need quite alot of attention from my loved ones. so i tend to whine and throw tantrum, just to get attention. when you have a ring, in the midst of arguement, you tend to want to take it out. for you no longer believe in it will bring you happiness in the relationship. i nearly did that a few times, cause i'm simply too upset. he hates it when i do it. cause to guys, it's like you're not being seriously about the ring and the whole relationship. but to girls, it's like you dont see a point in that ring anymore if it's all so unhappy already. like utterly disappointed already. heart broken.
well, some advices to go out. dont rush into a relationship or finding your future one. if it's yours it's yours. no matter how big the detour is, two hearts connected would be together. for the distance between the two hearts are termed as "forever".