hmm.. i happened to read one of the older posts by Anntonni and it's something regarding crying that i find it rather true. i had always been wanting to put such feelings down in words, but never found the suitable words to pen it down. so here's a short extract of the text.
Crying heals inner pain, for the loss of someone or something special is sometimes impossible to explain with understanding human terms. It is a better way of express of sadness & grief than any form of action put together.
Every person who cries will need a shoulder for support. A strong firm shoulder who can shelter the sadness from the touch of wrath. So next time you ever see a person crying, lend him/her your shoulder, cry with him/her if you want…
After shearing the tears of agony, you must remember to pick yourself up. Though many people has taught you that its no use crying over spill milk, you must remember to fetch another pail of fresh milk and continue in life. Many people are stuck in the whirl of disbelief when they are sad and often resulting in loss of confidence, self-esteem and self-respect. When you do that, you would realize that people won’t support you as much as you hope they will.
So remember…
“ To cry is a gift, not a burden in life. ”